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Almost anybody who is experiencing the end of a significant relationship will find it emotionally challenging, even when, as an adult, you are able to understand what’s happening. But for children, who are less likely to understand what is happening, who tend to take things personally, who attach their sense of self largely to their family unit, and for whom emotions can be powerful, parental separation and divorce can be incredibly overwhelming and confusing. This is especially so when parents are in conflict.

If you are interested in how to help children cope with separation and divorce, please check out my article on my psychology blog site CHILDREN, SEPARATION and DIVORCE: Coping with Parent Wars

Your children need you cope and cooperate in the best way possible, so that they can deal with the breakup in the best way possible.

If you are struggling to cope with a separation, or at risk of separating, or simply concerned about your children, please give me a call on 07456660227.


The human mind is an incredible tool. But with its incredible complexity, comes, for many of us, over thinking, which can lead to discomfort, pain, distress and psychological problems, such as depression and anxiety.

We psychologists used to teach people how to stop or let go of destructive  thoughts, but we now realise that, rather than trying to get rid of them, it is fine to just allow them, as long as you don’t get caught up in them; as long as we don’t believe them to be the truth; and as long as we stay mindful of what they really are… just sounds, pictures and feelings.

The  How to Disentangle from Your Destructive Thoughts article on my Psychology Through the Internet site outlines how to do this.

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The article discusses a simple and effective way of managing harmful thoughts and feelings that can lead to anxiety, low mood, sleep problems, confidence and relationship problems.

Untangling from destructive thoughts and emotions can help you become more relaxed, happy and psychologically healthy.